I had the most amazing fortieth birthday party. Ever. There were fireworks and not one, but two visits by the local police. People from all over my life were there. There was dancing to Duran Duran, Run DMC and Billy Idol. The last thing on my mind that day was my mortality.
“Seduction can be broken down
into an equation: 10% projection of success, 10% appearance,
10% intelligence, and 70% charm.”
Some people just seem to ooze sex appeal (think Samantha Jones and Christian Grey). Granted, those are fictional characters that both have a lot of experience under their belts, but don’t worry if you don’t—with a little coaching and practice, you will be radiating sexy in no time. The truth is we are all capable of being sexy. Like everything else in life that’s worth having or doing, it takes effort and dedication to perfect those skills. Whether you are trying to meet a stranger, or rekindle the art of seduction after years in a relationship, these are some guidelines to follow in perfecting your skillset.
What if the epic training montage from Rocky IV (YouTube it if you haven’t seen it) were real life? While we can’t all have a song like Hearts on Fire as our personal soundtrack or own an American Flag robe like Apollo Creed’s, we can still take some lessons from Rocky’s training.